I am 36 years old. I am 5'8 with short blonde hair and green eyes. I am a college educated professional with my own job, car, and home. I am a recent widow with two small children. I had what I consider to be the perfect relationship with the love of my life. I know how to give a receive unconditional love and respect. I could be a wonderful partner to the right person. Intelligence, ambition, and a positive attitude are the most attractive qualities to me. I don't know exactly what I am expecting from this post. But, I can tell you that I am not looking for casual "hookups" . If you are married and looking for something on the side, I am not the one for you. You should be investing this time and energy in the relationship you plan to stay in. If you are a SWM from NC, and you would like to know more, please feel free to respond to my post and we can see where it goes.