I'm hopeless in a sense because I look for a man who can step up to the plate and really give me what I desire and need from a relationship. I look for intelligence and humor as well as the ability to allow love in. I want to learn from one another and get to know someone on different levels. I desire a friendship as well as passion. I won't allow a superficial engagement, I want a real thing. Sooo, where are the genuine thoughtful men who have more character and understanding? I'm looking for those who have in mind some better idea of the kinda gal they know they will like and enjoy, not something just for kicks, I need something more pliable. I would enjoy someone who has the ability to laugh at life and at themselves! Humor is the key to the good times. If you are interested, leave some thoughtful comment and hit me up