Seeking Curvy, Full Figured, BBW, SSBBW, whatever the term is anymore. Personally I prefer Reubenesque. That's the type of lady I find the epitome of sensuality and beauty. That's what I'm looking for. Be real, don't try to sell me, get money, etc. I'm looking for a real and honest relationship only. Please read this entire thing. If you don't have the attention span to at least read about who you're responding to, I promise you don't have the attention span for me. I'm not trying to be mean or arrogant here, but I don't want to waste time or play games.
Please note, Hair and beard are subject to change. LOL
You must be in the Blue Earth Area. An hour to an Hour and a half at most away in any direction. Albert Lea, Fairmont, Mankato, Clear Lake/Mason City. No Long Distance please.
Me 53 Widower (2 yrs), 3 grown children.
I own my home and car/truck, and am on Disability (all body parts intact and functioning) we can talk about my condition when/if connect..
420 friendly though not currently partaking myself
Beyond that ask and lets get to know each other.
You
Be Honest. First and foremost. Don't bulls**t me, don't play games, etc. Just don't, it's a total deal breaker and I will just walk away immediately. You can expect the same from me. Trust is a must, period.
Single, divorced, widowed, poly, open, etc. No short term, temp, trial separations, no cheating etc. See Honest above
Have own place and be stable. Must be able to host at least some, and looking for a LTR. No casual one night, maybe someday again, etc. We do not have to start out on a daily thing but you must be wanting to move in that direction. Put it this way, I need you to not want to be back here on CL as badly as I don't. LOL Obviously compatability and all matters but LTR needs to be the desired goal.
Be reubenesque (curvy+), seriously, it's in the title, it's in the first paragraph, it's here a 3rd time, get it? You need to be secure about you're body and yourself. You need to understand compliments are meant as just that, I'm telling you I like you just the way you are, and I wouldn't want you to change. I don't care what "they" or "society" thinks, I care about what I think and if we're together what we think.
Like to cuddle, kiss, be and give touches. If you're hung up on this type of physical affection that's a real problem, though possibly willing to work through issues with right woman
Age 21-62 upper limit not a hard one, right woman is the important part.
Be Honest. First and foremost. Don't bulls**t me, don't play games, etc. Just don't, it's a total deal breaker and I will just walk away immediately. You can expect the same from me. Trust is a must, period. First on the you list and last. You can expect the same, it's who and what I am.
The Relationship I'm looking for.
I don't want to define this too much but it must be LTR oriented. I am monogamous with my partner, you need to be also with me, exceptions of course with poly type should that happen. Honesty is just so important, I can't stress it enough. There are very few things that I can't work through and almost every single one is an honesty/trust breech of some kind. I expect it, and you should too.
Open and passionate affection is important. It's a big thing with me. No I don't want to bump and grind at a restaurant table, but I do want to hold hands, hug, steal kisses etc. reaching out as one of us walks by for that quick soft brush of the fingers. Must love to cuddle, kiss, touch while relaxing. Does not need to be every second lol, but it does need to be a regular and wanted thing.
Must like to be a couple, if that makes sense. I love to cook together, shop together, just be together. again no not every minute of every day but I'm not shy about being with you and admiring you. I'm definitely not talking clingy or weird but affection and passion are a major thing to me. I love it when you feel wanted and I love to be felt wanted. The real word would be intimate. An intimate relationship of trust and caring and joy of being with someone.
Looking into each others eyes. Conversations that last for years as they develop and we grow together. These kind of things are important to me, and should be for you. You need to be able to handle compliments. Being my Queen and I your King. I'm a bit old fashion in relationship and gender roles. I like my woman to be a woman, empowered and sure of herself, a partner, and she needs to like to have a King. A man who leads with you as his main concern. We need to be able to trust enough, to be comfortable enough with each other that we feel safe to be vulnerable when needed and strong enough to let that happen.
And then there's the s*x thing, lol. First off let me be clear, I am not centered around my penis. If actual intercourse is an absolute must for you, do yourself a favor and don't respond. It's extremely unlikely I'll satisfy you. However if you can live with that idea read on because you might like this, at least I hope.
I'm very sense oriented and this is very clear in my sexuality. My focus is on you. Your orgasm is mine. Watching you, feeling you, hearing you, that's what gets me off. I'm a hands, fingers, mouth, tongue, all over you type of lover. I love to use toys on you if you like. My goal is to make you orgasm because that what takes me there. Yes I have a penis, yes it's avg size and yes it can function. The deal is I can not touch and feel and watch and taste you as you cum during intercourse. It leaves me shortchanged. If you haven't run off laughing or whatever we'll certainly talk about things. You just need to know this about me upfront and be ok with it.
Vanilla to spicy I'm good with most things to some degree. Not into lifestyling though, nothing that advanced. Like to be tied to the bed as I play with you? I'm there. want me to put you in suspension or something? I'm not for you. Within my world I can accommodate most any taste, again I'm wanting your pleasure because it's mine.
So if you can deal with my want and need and let yourself be my focus we might have a lot of fun. Oh yea this doesn't mean I want you to oral me for 5 hrs before or after or what ever. It means when you orgasm I do because of watching feeling hearing you. Anything I need is after and minimal and isn't dependent on any certain act. So relax, I'm not trying to trick you like that.
Bonus Lightning Round!
None of these are deal breakers, but they are extra points, lol. That sounds so wrong, but you know what I mean. These are the things that would seriously and effortlessly connect us.
Long hair, shoulder and longer.
Redhead
Shaven
35-50 Like I said 21 and up is ok, this is just the range where I think we'll have the most in common.
Into Rock and Roll, DooWop to 60's to metal,etc. Also includes Blues. Wide range of taste here Clapton to Clash Buddy Holly to RHC,
Into GD/JGB or RJD solo and all bands (Elf onward)
Like to watch lightning storms. From good spot at home or drive out to special spot
Like live music
Cooking together
Fishing
Renaissance Fairs
Yard sales, etc.
LOTRO or TSW, I have lifetime for both though haven't been on for a while.
Many other things, I'll add as I get the chance. Mention these things if you're interested ladies, these will get the quickest responses since we'll already know there's some common ground/interest
Ok enough rambling. If you have an interest in seeing if we could work, and you're good with the above contact me. Tell me about this post, what interested you, what Bonuses we have in common, what some of yours are. I need to weed out bulls**t artists, bots etc. I want to see you read this.
I'll reply back asking you to direct email me and then we can see where we go. I have face and full body (clothed) pics and would like the same. I'm not sending d**k pics, and I don't wanna see your hoo-hoo. We'll do that in person if and when we get there.
Seeking Curvy, Full Figured, BBW, SSBBW, whatever the term is anymore. Personally I prefer Reubenesque. That's the type of lady I find the epitome of sensuality and beauty. That's what I'm looking for. Be real, don't try to sell me, get money, etc. I'm looking for a real and honest relationship only. Please read this entire thing. If you don't have the attention span to at least read about who you're responding to, I promise you don't have the attention span for me. I'm not trying to be mean or arrogant here, but I don't want to waste time or play games.
Please note, Hair and beard are subject to change. LOL
You must be in the Blue Earth Area. An hour to an Hour and a half at most away in any direction. Albert Lea, Fairmont, Mankato, Clear Lake/Mason City. No Long Distance please.
Me 53 Widower (2 yrs), 3 grown children.
I own my home and car/truck, and am on Disability (all body parts intact and functioning) we can talk about my condition when/if connect..
420 friendly though not currently partaking myself
Beyond that ask and lets get to know each other.
You
Be Honest. First and foremost. Don't bulls**t me, don't play games, etc. Just don't, it's a total deal breaker and I will just walk away immediately. You can expect the same from me. Trust is a must, period.
Single, divorced, widowed, poly, open, etc. No short term, temp, trial separations, no cheating etc. See Honest above
Have own place and be stable. Must be able to host at least some, and looking for a LTR. No casual one night, maybe someday again, etc. We do not have to start out on a daily thing but you must be wanting to move in that direction. Put it this way, I need you to not want to be back here on CL as badly as I don't. LOL Obviously compatability and all matters but LTR needs to be the desired goal.
Be reubenesque (curvy+), seriously, it's in the title, it's in the first paragraph, it's here a 3rd time, get it? You need to be secure about you're body and yourself. You need to understand compliments are meant as just that, I'm telling you I like you just the way you are, and I wouldn't want you to change. I don't care what "they" or "society" thinks, I care about what I think and if we're together what we think.
Like to cuddle, kiss, be and give touches. If you're hung up on this type of physical affection that's a real problem, though possibly willing to work through issues with right woman
Age 21-62 upper limit not a hard one, right woman is the important part.
Be Honest. First and foremost. Don't bulls**t me, don't play games, etc. Just don't, it's a total deal breaker and I will just walk away immediately. You can expect the same from me. Trust is a must, period. First on the you list and last. You can expect the same, it's who and what I am.
The Relationship I'm looking for.
I don't want to define this too much but it must be LTR oriented. I am monogamous with my partner, you need to be also with me, exceptions of course with poly type should that happen. Honesty is just so important, I can't stress it enough. There are very few things that I can't work through and almost every single one is an honesty/trust breech of some kind. I expect it, and you should too.
Open and passionate affection is important. It's a big thing with me. No I don't want to bump and grind at a restaurant table, but I do want to hold hands, hug, steal kisses etc. reaching out as one of us walks by for that quick soft brush of the fingers. Must love to cuddle, kiss, touch while relaxing. Does not need to be every second lol, but it does need to be a regular and wanted thing.
Must like to be a couple, if that makes sense. I love to cook together, shop together, just be together. again no not every minute of every day but I'm not shy about being with you and admiring you. I'm definitely not talking clingy or weird but affection and passion are a major thing to me. I love it when you feel wanted and I love to be felt wanted. The real word would be intimate. An intimate relationship of trust and caring and joy of being with someone.
Looking into each others eyes. Conversations that last for years as they develop and we grow together. These kind of things are important to me, and should be for you. You need to be able to handle compliments. Being my Queen and I your King. I'm a bit old fashion in relationship and gender roles. I like my woman to be a woman, empowered and sure of herself, a partner, and she needs to like to have a King. A man who leads with you as his main concern. We need to be able to trust enough, to be comfortable enough with each other that we feel safe to be vulnerable when needed and strong enough to let that happen.
And then there's the s*x thing, lol. First off let me be clear, I am not centered around my penis. If actual intercourse is an absolute must for you, do yourself a favor and don't respond. It's extremely unlikely I'll satisfy you. However if you can live with that idea read on because you might like this, at least I hope.
I'm very sense oriented and this is very clear in my sexuality. My focus is on you. Your orgasm is mine. Watching you, feeling you, hearing you, that's what gets me off. I'm a hands, fingers, mouth, tongue, all over you type of lover. I love to use toys on you if you like. My goal is to make you orgasm because that what takes me there. Yes I have a penis, yes it's avg size and yes it can function. The deal is I can not touch and feel and watch and taste you as you cum during intercourse. It leaves me shortchanged. If you haven't run off laughing or whatever we'll certainly talk about things. You just need to know this about me upfront and be ok with it.
Vanilla to spicy I'm good with most things to some degree. Not into lifestyling though, nothing that advanced. Like to be tied to the bed as I play with you? I'm there. want me to put you in suspension or something? I'm not for you. Within my world I can accommodate most any taste, again I'm wanting your pleasure because it's mine.
So if you can deal with my want and need and let yourself be my focus we might have a lot of fun. Oh yea this doesn't mean I want you to oral me for 5 hrs before or after or what ever. It means when you orgasm I do because of watching feeling hearing you. Anything I need is after and minimal and isn't dependent on any certain act. So relax, I'm not trying to trick you like that.
Bonus Lightning Round!
None of these are deal breakers, but they are extra points, lol. That sounds so wrong, but you know what I mean. These are the things that would seriously and effortlessly connect us.
Long hair, shoulder and longer.
Redhead
Shaven
35-50 Like I said 21 and up is ok, this is just the range where I think we'll have the most in common.
Into Rock and Roll, DooWop to 60's to metal,etc. Also includes Blues. Wide range of taste here Clapton to Clash Buddy Holly to RHC,
Into GD/JGB or RJD solo and all bands (Elf onward)
Like to watch lightning storms. From good spot at home or drive out to special spot
Like live music
Cooking together
Fishing
Renaissance Fairs
Yard sales, etc.
LOTRO or TSW, I have lifetime for both though haven't been on for a while.
Many other things, I'll add as I get the chance. Mention these things if you're interested ladies, these will get the quickest responses since we'll already know there's some common ground/interest
Ok enough rambling. If you have an interest in seeing if we could work, and you're good with the above contact me. Tell me about this post, what interested you, what Bonuses we have in common, what some of yours are. I need to weed out bulls**t artists, bots etc. I want to see you read this.
I'll reply back asking you to direct email me and then we can see where we go. I have face and full body (clothed) pics and would like the same. I'm not sending d**k pics, and I don't wanna see your hoo-hoo. We'll do that in person if and when we get there.
Please note, Hair and beard are subject to change. LOL
You must be in the Blue Earth Area. An hour to an Hour and a half at most away in any direction. Albert Lea, Fairmont, Mankato, Clear Lake/Mason City. No Long Distance please.
Me 53 Widower (2 yrs), 3 grown children.
I own my home and car/truck, and am on Disability (all body parts intact and functioning) we can talk about my condition when/if connect..
420 friendly though not currently partaking myself
Beyond that ask and lets get to know each other.
You
Be Honest. First and foremost. Don't bulls**t me, don't play games, etc. Just don't, it's a total deal breaker and I will just walk away immediately. You can expect the same from me. Trust is a must, period.
Single, divorced, widowed, poly, open, etc. No short term, temp, trial separations, no cheating etc. See Honest above
Have own place and be stable. Must be able to host at least some, and looking for a LTR. No casual one night, maybe someday again, etc. We do not have to start out on a daily thing but you must be wanting to move in that direction. Put it this way, I need you to not want to be back here on CL as badly as I don't. LOL Obviously compatability and all matters but LTR needs to be the desired goal.
Be reubenesque (curvy+), seriously, it's in the title, it's in the first paragraph, it's here a 3rd time, get it? You need to be secure about you're body and yourself. You need to understand compliments are meant as just that, I'm telling you I like you just the way you are, and I wouldn't want you to change. I don't care what "they" or "society" thinks, I care about what I think and if we're together what we think.
Like to cuddle, kiss, be and give touches. If you're hung up on this type of physical affection that's a real problem, though possibly willing to work through issues with right woman
Age 21-62 upper limit not a hard one, right woman is the important part.
Be Honest. First and foremost. Don't bulls**t me, don't play games, etc. Just don't, it's a total deal breaker and I will just walk away immediately. You can expect the same from me. Trust is a must, period. First on the you list and last. You can expect the same, it's who and what I am.
The Relationship I'm looking for.
I don't want to define this too much but it must be LTR oriented. I am monogamous with my partner, you need to be also with me, exceptions of course with poly type should that happen. Honesty is just so important, I can't stress it enough. There are very few things that I can't work through and almost every single one is an honesty/trust breech of some kind. I expect it, and you should too.
Open and passionate affection is important. It's a big thing with me. No I don't want to bump and grind at a restaurant table, but I do want to hold hands, hug, steal kisses etc. reaching out as one of us walks by for that quick soft brush of the fingers. Must love to cuddle, kiss, touch while relaxing. Does not need to be every second lol, but it does need to be a regular and wanted thing.
Must like to be a couple, if that makes sense. I love to cook together, shop together, just be together. again no not every minute of every day but I'm not shy about being with you and admiring you. I'm definitely not talking clingy or weird but affection and passion are a major thing to me. I love it when you feel wanted and I love to be felt wanted. The real word would be intimate. An intimate relationship of trust and caring and joy of being with someone.
Looking into each others eyes. Conversations that last for years as they develop and we grow together. These kind of things are important to me, and should be for you. You need to be able to handle compliments. Being my Queen and I your King. I'm a bit old fashion in relationship and gender roles. I like my woman to be a woman, empowered and sure of herself, a partner, and she needs to like to have a King. A man who leads with you as his main concern. We need to be able to trust enough, to be comfortable enough with each other that we feel safe to be vulnerable when needed and strong enough to let that happen.
And then there's the s*x thing, lol. First off let me be clear, I am not centered around my penis. If actual intercourse is an absolute must for you, do yourself a favor and don't respond. It's extremely unlikely I'll satisfy you. However if you can live with that idea read on because you might like this, at least I hope.
I'm very sense oriented and this is very clear in my sexuality. My focus is on you. Your orgasm is mine. Watching you, feeling you, hearing you, that's what gets me off. I'm a hands, fingers, mouth, tongue, all over you type of lover. I love to use toys on you if you like. My goal is to make you orgasm because that what takes me there. Yes I have a penis, yes it's avg size and yes it can function. The deal is I can not touch and feel and watch and taste you as you cum during intercourse. It leaves me shortchanged. If you haven't run off laughing or whatever we'll certainly talk about things. You just need to know this about me upfront and be ok with it.
Vanilla to spicy I'm good with most things to some degree. Not into lifestyling though, nothing that advanced. Like to be tied to the bed as I play with you? I'm there. want me to put you in suspension or something? I'm not for you. Within my world I can accommodate most any taste, again I'm wanting your pleasure because it's mine.
So if you can deal with my want and need and let yourself be my focus we might have a lot of fun. Oh yea this doesn't mean I want you to oral me for 5 hrs before or after or what ever. It means when you orgasm I do because of watching feeling hearing you. Anything I need is after and minimal and isn't dependent on any certain act. So relax, I'm not trying to trick you like that.
Bonus Lightning Round!
None of these are deal breakers, but they are extra points, lol. That sounds so wrong, but you know what I mean. These are the things that would seriously and effortlessly connect us.
Long hair, shoulder and longer.
Redhead
Shaven
35-50 Like I said 21 and up is ok, this is just the range where I think we'll have the most in common.
Into Rock and Roll, DooWop to 60's to metal,etc. Also includes Blues. Wide range of taste here Clapton to Clash Buddy Holly to RHC,
Into GD/JGB or RJD solo and all bands (Elf onward)
Like to watch lightning storms. From good spot at home or drive out to special spot
Like live music
Cooking together
Fishing
Renaissance Fairs
Yard sales, etc.
LOTRO or TSW, I have lifetime for both though haven't been on for a while.
Many other things, I'll add as I get the chance. Mention these things if you're interested ladies, these will get the quickest responses since we'll already know there's some common ground/interest
Ok enough rambling. If you have an interest in seeing if we could work, and you're good with the above contact me. Tell me about this post, what interested you, what Bonuses we have in common, what some of yours are. I need to weed out bulls**t artists, bots etc. I want to see you read this.
I'll reply back asking you to direct email me and then we can see where we go. I have face and full body (clothed) pics and would like the same. I'm not sending d**k pics, and I don't wanna see your hoo-hoo. We'll do that in person if and when we get there.
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