I like a strong man. I am a very independent person, I have to work hard and rely on myself, both financially and emotionally. I want someone who wants to be the head but not the boss, more of a partner. I don't like to be sad or constantly arguing and I would expect the same from my partner. There is always give and take but I don't want to be the only one doing all the taking. Men are wonderful in general so I just want a real man.