Hi there...I am 49 and a SSBBW and I am disabled and in a wheelchair... I have decided that I don't want to be alone anymore so thought I would give this a try. I do have a wicked sense of humor and I love to laugh...respect both ways is important to me and I do not see any reason to yell and scream...we are adults we should act like it most of the time lol I hope to hear from you... lots of layers to get thru here...you never know..you just might like what you discover