ONE2LOVEU4EVER

[b]***A great man is not one who romances a different girl every night....but...a great man is one who romances the same girl for a lifetime.....***[/b]

If I friended or favorited you, I was either busy, or I'm shy. Say hello. =)

About me….let's see….. First, let me say that I hate to fill these things out. I mean, do people really decide they are potentially going to spend the rest of their life with someone on these sites because they read a silly post that is probably filled with soft truths and mild fibs? I am very honest, and I expect you to be. I'm not capable of cheating, it's not in my program. Not only am I not capable emotionally, but physically as well. I'm not capable of one night stands, either. I handle adversity with humor. I'm non-confrontational and not violent. I'm 6'2" and built like a freight train. The Navy had me on a steroid for a breathing problem and packed 120 lbs on me in a year. As you can see, I'm losing weight like crazy and building my body back up. I'm actively dieting and exercising….and taking my body back. I work out 3-4 days a week, and I have a gym in my house. I'm an 80% service connected disabled veteran. Don't worry, I have all my limbs and I'm not disfigured.I live in the OBX.

Up until the beginning of last year...I wasn't supposed to be single ever again. I thought that I found the one that I would spend my life with, and I was wrong…..for all 6 years. I'm loyal to a fault. I was the life support in my single-sided relationship. I did what it took to fight for it and make it work. Silly me. I give a million percent to the people I love, and I expect at least a fraction of that back. As much as you like to be romanced and feel loved, I guarantee a guy like me likes it as much, or more. I'm a very sensitive Cancer. You will get every bit of me that I can give. I put your rough times before mine. Mine are usually trivial anyway. When I love you, our happiness means much more.

I'm kind, caring, generous, and I love to have fun. I very rarely drink but, when I do, everyone around me has fun. Drunk Bobby is a lot of fun to be around, but I'm not crazy about how Sober Bobby feels the next few days. =D I don't drink very often, or do drugs. Life is short and I don't like missing time. However, I do like to have fun.

I love traveling, going new places, and trying new things. I have a 31' motor home. and a 22' speedboat, that aren't very fun by yourself. I'm a very romantic person. I will ensure you are warm, comfortable, and out of the rain. I will open the door for you every time, and I will block you from view of creepers, while nodding to them that I agree to how good you happen to look. I will grab your hand while we are walking or driving. I will touch your face when we kiss. I will give you rubbins while we cuddle. I will go all out on holidays, whether big holidays, or our key dates…which I always remember. I'm sort of the chick in the relationship where that's concerned. I'm a great cook…and I love to see the look on your face when you see what I've done for you. I love the appreciation. I'm all about flowers and gifts for the hell of it. I love movies and snuggling. I look forward to meeting you for, or bringing you, lunch at work...and seeing you at the end of the day. Looking for a woman that has all the games out of their system, or never intended to play them in the first place. I am very much looking forward to having a family. I enjoy the love and the ability to care for someone. I'm over the hurt and disappointment all the time. I deserve better. I enjoy PDA, smiling/laughing and being silly, romantic evenings, and just being adored, loved, and appreciated.

Ok…that's enough blabbing. Like I said, I hate these things, but, you get the idea. I'm a pretty good guy….and looking forward to the next chapter. I hope you have a good day….and find what you are looking for.



If you have a pic showing you eating a banana....you probably aren't for me.
If you have a pic flipping the finger.....probably not for me.
If you have a pic showing JUST your boobs.....probably a no.
If you have a pic where your butt is pointed at the camera, and you think it's cute to look over your shoulder...and you think that's going to get you a quality man....no.
If you are posing in your pics with all your ex flings from Adult Friendfinder......WAY no.
If you have a pic with all of your cats, while in your sweats and slippers....probably a no..depending on the slippers.
If you are 40 and live with your parents because you 'support them'......no. Certain circumstances can be waived.
If your nickname is 'Sissy' and you are wearing a Tweety Bird shirt, or you have tweety lover in your user name....you aren't for me.
If you're a white girl and your name is Gangstaboo...and you have 7 kids....and your profile says you aren't big on romance? You guessed it....
If you are still hung up on your ex....please don't play with my heart.....fix your stuff first. I'll be here.
"Keep it 100" drives me crazy....please don't ever say that. LoL