I'm not searching for my soulmate per say. I believe that we will find each other if we're meant to. I would like to find someone to spend time with. Dinner out, going bowling, or seeing a movie alone is fine but is better with a companion. I don't have children and they are not in my future unless I adopt or become a step-parent further down the road. I do want to say that I would not have a problem with a man with kids and understand the flexibility or lack of in the life of a parent. Full disclosure, I am a smoker. I listen mostly to rock/metal music and enjoy action movies. I like to take nature walks, shoot pool, cook, and do anything artistic( paint/draw/write/craft). I don't like games and try to live my life as an open book.