I should advise you to be very open and direct, without being crude, that I do have a desire for a long term relationship. I feel it is the most honorable thing to present that in the beginning rather than spring it out of the blue after a few weeks of online connection with email or chatting. I do agree that it is most productive to share with each other about personal history, thoughts, and fears. I do believe that the best way that humans have found to share those things is through the stories we create. As a specie we have been doing this from our earliest roots going back to our cave abodes where we used animal blood and plant oils to present flowing histories upon the walls about the heroes of our lives, even if it is ourselves as heroes, from slaying the beasts around us or telling the tales of childbirth, family, and heritage. In fact, on this very idea, there have been studies of a wide range of students from pre-kindergarten to adult, where groups were given just stripped away facts and other groups of students were given those facts within the structure of stories. I like being blunt, I tell it as it is. I enjoy my BBW to be straight too, we should not hold anything back anyway, I am ready for this, I think I am at that stage.