*first, please don't message if you are outside London. I won't reply, there's only a few messages per day you get for free while I decide whether to pay to be here. Sorry!*
I am an open, kind, considerate and honest woman. I'm looking for sweet, gentle nerds; no alphas, lads, right-wingers or 'dominants'. Left-leaning/centrists welcome, and music geeks are everything. I like simple things, also, I don't need holidays or fancy dates out. I'm rather a homebody, really. I also don't really use my phone, which I know sets me out as slightly odd, but there we go. I'm an editor so I like to protect my eyes, because they're my living. Staying off my phone is important to me, but I dig email. I love football, also, so if you support Manchester United don't swipe me, it won't end well lads
If you're a bit younger, that's fine, I'm not against the idea of a younger man. As long as you're respectful. Life is hard and dating, for women, can be very tough. Remember there's a human being at the other end of the tech and we're more than words on a page.
If you want to make an approach here's my advice: Be kind. Be GGG. Be empathetic. Think about other people: try and make lives better around you. Don't be a flake, and especially don't be a ghoster. Frankly, it is rude and unkind to treat another human being as an experience to be gathered rather than a person with feelings that can be hurt.