Let me be straightforward.. I like my men like I like my takeout- available at my front door in 30 minutes or less.. so if you don't live on Long Island NY, please don't waste both our time. I'm not interested in doing the long distance thing. Been there, hated that. I'm pretty much a go with the flow, ride or die, type of chick.. but I'm too old to play games and won't tolerate lies and excuses.