I just had a friend tell me I’m witty, caring sweet and responsible. I think that’s pretty accurate but I’m also fierce, strong, empathetic and sarcastic. I was born and raised right here in San Diego and I’m looking for someone that could potentially turn into my forever person, but it’s not a set in stone thing either as I do perfectly well on my own, (and please note that there is more than definition to a forever person), just ask if you want to know if our definitions match. I have three kids and two grandkids that I love to spend time with. I love country music and while I’m not really in the shape for hiking I do like getting outside and walking or playing with the grandkids at the park. I have tattoos in case you didn’t see them and I smoke in case you don’t scroll that far down. I want someone who is honest and responsible yet knows how to have fun and can make me laugh and someone who is also financially able to take care of themselves. I’ve had too many guys that just wanted to mooch off m and expect me to do everything including letting them use my car all the time and me paying all the bills and ping all the cleaning. I’m over it. I’ve raised my kids and I have grandkids that I help out with now. Sorry but it’s the truth. Humor is important to me. I’m still kind of the class clown even at my work, but I handle my business and get my work done. I love making people feel good especially if they’re having a bad day. I love helping people which is why I work in customer service. I can almost always make even the maddest person leave happy, or at least content. I have my own car and home and a steady reliable job. I’m not liking for a sugar daddy, at my age that would be ridiculous lol. I’ve been taking care of myself and my boys for a very long time but it would be nice to have someone who cared enough to want to help whether I accepted the help or not, accepting help is not my strong suit. I hope that if you’ve read this far you’ll at least say hi or send a like. Hopefully this wasn’t too scary a read but I wanted to be totally honest here. Thank you for your time!