BEN

Please read my entire profile and pay close attention to who I am and what I'm searching for. At this point in my life I know what works for me and I know what I want.Lucky for you, at my age, I have undergone intense training and torturous discipline through relationships in my life. I was a very slow learner but I think I have it down now. All the scars are gone. I learned how to say Please, Thank You, I'm Sorry and “yes, I'm lost”. Every day is a new adventure not a redundant struggle. For me....every day is an opportunity. Every day I’m a NORMAL (not boring, just normal), fun loving, energetic, educated, HILARIOUS, athletic, old school romantic, passionate (in love AND life), successful professional looking for my "twin" in life to share adventures, laughter, conversation, fun, people watching, glasses of wine and/or a good draft beer. In time, we can graduate to tickling, pillow fights, baby oil massages and hair braiding (not really). I've been described as a Renaissance man of sorts with varied interests and versatile talents (not circus act talents......more like normal, general handy talents). I’m handy around the house and I know the difference between right and wrong although I sometimes walk a fine line. I have a strong belief in integrity and ethics. Handshakes and promises are golden to me. Cheating and shortcuts are NOT in my vocabulary. No drama here....life's too short. If you can laugh, I can make you happy. If you are funny....even better. You MUST be a physically active, fit person who at least TRY'S to maintain a healthy lifestyle. I prefer someone who enjoys physical activities. Doesn't have to be a Mud Race ! Nobody can MAKE another "happy", so I decided to be content single but prefer marriage! On balance, only a wife could have satisfied Adam in the way Adam was satisfied w/Eve. God chose to fill that place in Adam's heart w/a helpmate, not Himself. Finding a wife who is God's best IS an act of worship.

Beauty comes in all skin tones. I'm = interested in marriage from any ethnicity/country...fussing over skin color is like fussing over eye color. OPEN TO LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS! I frequently travel overseas, so I'll not hesitate to visit!

I want a woman who speaks the truth in love. Biblical convos/friendly disagreements. Unafraid of minor doctrinal differences......Men must lead. Eph. 5:22-23. However, the balance is Eph. 5:21.... Why marry if iron doesn't sharpen iron? Age range: approx. 35-54. I go to the gym 4-5 times per week and eat healthily.