JEN

Hello. Before you read below I must state the following. You must have a photo to get a response. Not interested in texting. That's like having a virtual relationship. Texting at first is fine. But if this is a place for you to hide behind a computer Im not interested. Interested only in outgoing extroverts. Not creepy men behind a computer. It goes nowhere. I prefer to talk by phone and let things progress. Long distance relationships never work. Please respond only if your nearby.. . To all of you I wish you the best of luck.

I'm looking for a concrete friendship that hopefully will turn into something more, someone that is local, someone that 45 to 55, that is White, South Pacific, or Philippino, that is educated, can carry a intellectual conversation. Looking to meet a man that is outgoing, down to earth, has good family values, and knows how to respect a woman, treat a woman, and is manly but a sweet side to him that is genuine and someone that has compassion towards others and animals. I am a animal lover. I have 2 cats. If you don't like cats, please move on. I love dogs and one day would love to have 2 dogs. I don't have children. I don't mind if you have older children as long as they are able to accept me in your life. I have both a professional background in PHOTOGRAPHY, also in the medical field, and have worked in investigations under a private investigator and also on the side dping genealogy/dna, helping people find there ancestry. It would be great if you like photography, or are the creative type, or into the Medical Science field, or Veternary Medicine.

I love spring and summer.
I come alive wanting to enjoy music, the outdoors, events, travel. Love discovering new places. Bucket list for travel, id like to get to HAWAII, SOUTHPACIFIC ISLANDS, Philippines, Italy, and GREECE. I'd also love doing a road trip in a camper from Arizona on up thru the national parks, lake Tahoe, Olympia, Oregon down to SAN Fran. My travels always involve photography. Wherever I go I look for PHOTO OPPORTUNITIES. I like weekend road trips. Locally I love NH, VT, RI, Maine...mostly like being along the coast near the water. Grew up always being near the ocean, yet I love lakes, cabins, camping, and night time attractions near the water. I would love someone that has similar interests.

What I don't like is motorcycles, bars, men that are consumed by sports, cars or drinking. That's a real turn off. I do not want to be involved with a alcoholic. You must be mentally stable. I don't need anyone like that in my life. If you are here simply because bbw are a f*tish please go. I am disgusted how bbws are segregated into a category. If it's simply a preference that you love and accept a bbw that's fine. But I am just a regular person that happens to be a bbw. I'm working hard at losing weight but accept that I will never be skinny. I've lost 60lbs..plan to continue and would prefer to be around a person that has a active lifestyle, enjoys working out and takes care of himself. I'm a casual person meaning I'm a bluejean tshirt type person, if I could wear sandals and shirts year round I would. I dred dressing up but of course will for special occasions. I'm not high maintenance, yet you'll never find me going out without my hair done and makeup. I'm feminine yet casual. I want a clean cut guy that takes care if himself. What attracts me to a man is he takes care if himself...beautiful eyes and a great smile, along with a fun goofy yet down to earth personality, some sarcasm, and a romantic..if there are any anymore. I love a man that loves to snuggle is not afraid of showing sweet gestures. C*CKINESS and NARCISSISTS DO NOT APPLY. If you are a control freak, with Ocd or your bipolar, I wont walk on eggshells for you. I want to live life, not be in a jail cell. Lol. Yes I've dealt with them. I'm at a point in my life I'm ready to start dating but honestly am nervous about dating again. I was in a relationship 20 yrs yet after 6 yrs I was ready to leave. It was over. So it's been a dead end thing many years. Was difficult to get out because we had a place we both owned. He would not leave. IM FREE NOW! I feel like a butterfly flying free. I am independent love the freedom but I really miss being in a beautiful place in a relationship and sharing experiences. I'm looking for match, my companion, best friend. It's time to start living. LETS GO!