yes, yes,What I find "cool" in a is how i can keeps a conversation flowing, im smart and has opinions on diverse topics, yet has a desire to learn more and more. A guy who has a good sense of humour and is determined in his views, yet flexible enough to question himself. A guy who doesn't follow the herd and embraces his individuality, yet respects that of others. A guy who pursues his passions and doesn't take himself too seriously... among other things!