I believe quite a few of us find it difficult to describe ourselves, and I am certainly among those. I prefer to let others judge me on the basis of looks, character and intelligence. I believe we often see ourselves differently than how others perceive us. What is not difficult to say is that I am a single male from California, I have never been married, nor do I have any kids. I would describe my personality as mild-tempered, one who avoids confrontation at all cost, but not entirely against a good debate, and one who has a rather furtive sense of humor.
I do hope, however, that you have a Mae West like attitude towards men, as she only liked two kinds of men, domestic and imported. And if you think that I still don't have what it takes, Mae West also only liked two other kinds of men, those with muscles and those without.
I once thought I had a 12-pack, but that was of course until I was reminded that ribs are not to be confused with abs.
We may not be compatible, but perhaps we're combatable.