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Hi...I am 42, 5'9. voluptuous bbw, who is currently on the journey of weight loss. I have two children, my son is soon to be 24 and my daughter is soon to be 21..both come first above all else in my life! I enjoy swimming, going out to a movie, dinner and a drink (every now and again on the drink) but am just as happy to have all those same things with that special someone right at home. I'm affectionate and love a lot of attention. I give what I get, so don't BS or you won't like me..lol. I am looking for a man who is confident in who he is, knows what he wants and what he has when he has it. Loving, caring, affectionate and ready to share and enjoy every aspect of his life with me. I want someone to share my laughter & joyful moments with, but also someone I know will be there to help me through the sad and hardest of days! I don't want a boyfriend or a friend with perks. I want that ______ who tryin to put in work! Let me be your Lotus Flower Bomb......(If you don't know...Don't ask!) My favorite music is RnB, but I also enjoy rap, reggaeton, latin, some country & some rock. On an even more personal note, I have fibromyalgia which is a nerve condition. It causes a multitude of symptoms, but the ones I suffer from the most are stabbing/burning and shooting pains in my arms and legs. Stiffness & muscle spasms throughout my body. I am always in some minor amount of pain, but I manage it as best I can by keeping my stress level down as much as possible, meds, monitoring my activities, water therapy & just making sure I put myself at the top of the list of what needs to be taken care of. I spent many years being a super woman and never stopping to rest or take care of myself. I also battle depression, anxiety and PTSD. For these reasons I am on disability. This all has changed my life but I continue to smile and enjoy life. Probably more now, than ever before. Thanks therapy...lol. If you wanna know more, let's get a conversation going!!