First of all, I am a paraplegic and I'm very independent. I am looking for a friend first and see where it goes from there. I am a widow who is kind, loving, and an honest woman. I am very shy and slow to get to know you, but once I am your friend I am fiercely loyal. I am not into games and playing with people's emotions. I am very family oriented and love being with and around family. I do not cook! So hopefully you can!