extremely cliched middle aged,20+years as married,last 5 despite efforts lacking the physical.need that and hope to meet like minded.i do not have a photo because i have never been able to upload one from my old phone.so trust me a bit when i say i look more like spilled paint than an oil painting.it would begreat to sit down sometime with someone as a meet and greet and that would happen only when you are ready somewhere that you choose.oh my goodness its may 23 and noone lusts me unless you count the women(3) from overseas and that is never going to work.boohoo for me,still hopeful.