retired, don't drink, quit smoking, don't gamble, love easy, don't hate, spiritual, not religious, photography, non professional, crafts, (wire, and some wood) , lover, not a fighter, discuss, not argue, eat, not gobble, open minded, not closed minded, reader, not a watcher, active, not lazy, thinker, not gullible, actions, not words, stay home, no bar hopper, committed, not loose footed, passionate, not a wimp, warm, never cold
like big, not skinny, frugal, not wasteful, clean, not dirty, humble, not arrogant, cook, no chef, eyes open, not blind, hairy, not slick, consistent, no flip flop,