I am an independent woman who is happy to share my blessed life with someone equally independent and whole. I’m not a caretaker but I am a giver and can truly connect with the right person. I love to laugh and usually will say yes to adventure or simple enjoyments in life. I have overcome much and am not afraid to take chances. I’m strong willed but also flexible and open minded. Also I do want a friend and lover in that order. Otherwise I don’t trust or value you the way I would like to. I’m not looking to say no and boost my ego...I’m looking for someone with equal values and who can be attracted to me as I am.